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"Back Then They Didn't Want Me, Now I'm Hot They All On Me!"

This is a line from a rap song. The rapper is commenting on how before he became rich and famous, no girl would give him the time of day. Now he has money and those same girls are all over him. I want you all to apply this statement to your weightloss.

Are there people who have been nicer to you since you lost weight? Especially those you knew already! Example: ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends, ex-friends, etc.

Sun. Jul 8, 10:05am

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My ex, who cheated on me, suddenly decided after a year and a half (and after I lost 60 pounds) to drive 800 miles from his home to my town and try to "surprise me" at work to win me back. After declining his invitation to ruin my life, he continued to call me and text message me on and off for months.

When I went to visit my best friend, who lives across the street from him, last May he spent the majority of my visit with her trying to get me back STILL... and I'm engaged! He tried to treat me like he should have when we were together, but I was very closed off to it. After I left he told my friend something along the lines of how "being around me" just makes him feel worse for what he did.

It's just amusing that the entire time that I was fat, including when I visited my friend last year, he had no interest in even talking to me. But as soon as he saw in some photos that I wasn't fat anymore, it was try to get back together time.

He's an idiot and he'll probably die alone.

Sunday, July 08, 2007, 1:15 PM

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Good for you!!!

Sunday, July 08, 2007, 2:22 PM

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The security gaurd at my job would barely look at it me when I was very overweight and I gave up on expecting a responce each time I said "good morning". I lost 30 pounds and suddenly I was good enough to speak to.

Sunday, July 08, 2007, 9:29 PM

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As horrible and superficial as it is for people to do that, I am HOPING this will happen so I get the opportunity to show them how crappy they are! There are a couple ex boyfriends that treated me like crap that I hope give me the opportunity to shut them down!!

Sunday, July 08, 2007, 11:55 PM

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cool thread

Tuesday, July 10, 2007, 8:00 PM

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Wednesday, July 11, 2007, 10:42 PM

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Poster #2: I can't believe that someone could be so unabashedly shallow. Has he no pride?

Thursday, July 12, 2007, 11:04 PM

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Poster #2 here

Girl, that's my question.

Friday, July 13, 2007, 12:40 AM

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