Love Life Advice?!

So I been waiting on this moment ever since I laid eyes on him which would be 3 months ago when I first met him! but any who's I've done research on this sleeping with your trainer blah blah blah bullshit and I've been discouraged to even talk to him on that level! at first because it was about the pros and cons I'd have to deal with, but long story short he wanted to hang out we did! the following weekend he wanted to hang out we did but on this specific weekend I fucked up big time I let it happened (cough cough) and now I'm confused about him goin to the gym is awkward now because I make it that way! my mind is saying he had clients of all ages and I'm pretty sure he probably bangs the 3-5 of us ok! he looks good and all but I recently got out of a 3 year relationship I dont think I was lookin for casual sex I was looking for someone to be on the,...... to be continued ....page but now when I go he seems fine like nothing happen...me on the other hand oh noo this won't cut it so what's it gonna be buddy! please what to do in this crazy situation?!

Wed. Mar 20, 7:25pm

walk away. move on. chalk this up to experience. next time, make the object of your desire chase after you.

Wednesday, March 20, 2013, 8:20 PM

"why don't you tell me that 'if the girl had been worth having, she'd have waited for you?' no, sir, the girl really worth having won't wait for anybody."

F. Scott Fitzgerald
This Side of Paradise

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Wednesday, March 20, 2013, 9:05 PM

Find a new trainer. Move on. Learn from this. Don't have sex with anybody you are paying!

Wednesday, March 20, 2013, 11:03 PM

I like the idea of finding another trainer too. Too complicated trying to stay with the one you slept with.

Thursday, March 21, 2013, 1:03 PM

OP, you wanted a relationship with your trainer? Probably shouldn't have had sex on the 2nd date. He's assuming you just wanted to hook up.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013, 9:28 PM

yeah i did, i still do but it seems like ever since it happened, we cant even watch a movie like civil people without a hand being layed on my ass its a close ended situation! no questions asked so im fucked! (excuse my language)

Thursday, March 28, 2013, 12:02 PM

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