Sex and Weight Issues

I've been married for 12 years and have 4 kids. Despite all this, I'm still very self conscious about my body. I feel unattractive and therefore do not get excited about sex because I don't want my husband to see me. I spend more time trying to suck in my stomach or reposition myself so I will look better to him. It seems rediculous given the fact he has never said or done anything to make me feel unattractive. I'm heavy for me right now - 190 pounds on 5'8" body. I feel good at 160 pounds and that is what I'm working towards. Do you think men/husbands do pay attention and notice their wives 20-30 extra pounds or do you think they don't really care and just love you anyway. Should I just let it all hang out and be wild for him or hold tight until I'm where I want to be?

Wed. May 30, 5:09pm

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