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Sex Slavery

I want to discuss an opinion I posted on the thread previously titled "need to increase sex drive". Any weigh-ins on my opinion that a person does not have to be a sex slave to another person? Every comment is saying it is the woman's job to be this guys constant sex toy. She has to spend a lot of energy dressing up tantalizing him, watch porn, focusing her mental and physical energy on the activity of sex so that he will keep loving her when maybe she prefers to focus on other activity that she finds more productive or interesting . If sex is about expressing love between two people, then shouldn't 2-3 times a week of having sex be enough if that is all she desires? And shouldn't people be able to just cuddle, be affectionate, kind to one another and share spiritually without constantly stimulating their genitals? Or is that a woman's job in a relationship to keep playing this sex object role? Sex is an activity, it is not everything. If it is a pleasure, I think it is more pleasurable not to do it every day. We don't eat pie every day. Sex is a treat if it is treated like a treat and not like a job. I guess that if that is a woman's job, then in the name of legalized prostitution, he better be paying her a good sum.

If one person wants sex more often maybe they need to masturbate more. Unfortunately, this world is complex. I wish I for one wanted sex as much as my partners, so what do men do? Too bad we have jealousy and men can't
(or women can't) occasionally have outside of the relationship sex without it being a problem. It's our conditioning, but I too am possessive. Still I find it disconcerting that once "in love" it now becomes my job to have sex more frequently than I want to because that is what I have to do to keep someone loving me.


Fri. Mar 6, 7:35pm

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