If you found a string of flirtatious banter ...

... on your husband's cell phone between he and an ex-coworker, would you flip? If you trust in that nothing physical ever happened, but you see months-long strings of comments and remarks and lunch date arrangements that happened periodically, would you go nuts? He scrambled to delete one trail that I'd already seen and I'm assuming she advised him to do so because he thanked her for her words of caution and erased part of it (I'd already seen it and kept my mouth shut.)

It was secretive and feels like lies and I trust in him saying nothing physical happened, it was only flirting, but still — I am so stuck in this horrible place of anger and betrayal. And for years prior when we had some struggles, I never opened up to him and he in turn went to her for someone to talk to ... so for years, she knew all the intricacies of our relationship. Now he is telling me all of this after I confront him regarding the text messages and I am so torn.

I know this is a weight loss support group so apologies for the randomness. I need a place to vent though and sometimes this is a good sounding board with good advice. I want to drop it and move on and I don't have a clue where to begin.

Wed. Nov 17, 9:25am

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