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This is a messy situation: my boyfriend of 5 yrs 's brother is getting married in July. I was originally asked by his to be wife to be an usherette, a play on ushers, 2 ushers, 2 female usherttes, to make matching pairs. i was very excited for that, since they would dance with the wedding party, and all. 2 months later i was demoted to personal assitant, which was a disapointment to say the least, but i took it in stride.she had me buy a special dress to match for that position. now 4 months later i have been demoted again to candid pic taker or "photographer" as she said it would say in the program. my bf thinks i should just say no instead of a pity position. we feel she asked me to do this so that she wouldnt just have to tell me she didnt want me to be a personal attendant. i dont know what to do. if i do it i'll get to do with the wedding party bar hopping (im 22 yrs old) but i would have to be taking pics. she made it sound as if this was the only way i could come along bar hopping. if i dont my bf said he would not go along with them. i would take pics while hair is getting done (mine as well). even if i dont take the position, is it wrong of me to go along and get my hair done, or is it not appropriate to tag along? should i just get it done at another salon? i am pretty upset at her, she really has hurt my feelings and has not taken in account how it feels. i dont wanna cause trouble, if we were married id would pry make a stink about it (we've dated longer then the marrying couple) but i feel as if i cannot. idk i just need some advice and needed to vent a lil

Tue. Feb 26, 7:45pm

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