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My husband ignores and avoids me

I started dating my husband a month after my 20th birthday. I'm 35 and we're still together. After the birth of my first daughter, who is now 3.5 and ESPECIALLY during the pregnancy of my second daughter who is now 2, he has totally ignored me. We used to go everywhere together. Now he leaves me at home and continues with his life as if he doesn't have children or a family. He's not going to bars. But he is staying late at work to surf the net, chat online, whatever, just so when he does get home we're all in bed. He plays sports all of the time: every Friday night, every Sunday morning. When he's not playing, he's watching. He leaves in the morning and doesn't come home until between 10 p.m. and 1 a.m. After both babies I needed to lose about 10 -15 pounds. But I'm telling you, this is really depressing, distressing - you name it - and now I'm up to needing to lose about 20 pounds and it's not getting better. Now tomorrow is Halloween. It's going to be beautiful here. And he won't give up volleyball (this is friendly match with old people) to go trick or treating with his children. Last year he said he forgot and left to go do something else. The girls showed up alll dressed up and excited to show daddy and of course... no daddy. It happens all of the time. I do EVERYTHING alone. What the hell is going on? Of course I've tried talking to him. What should I do?

Thu. Oct 30, 7:13pm

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