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Did he just hit on me? What now?

It's been so long I don't recognize these things any more, did that really happen?
One of the guys at work (in for training from out of town) asked me yesterday afternoon, "So where are some good places to go out around here?" I respectfully answered, telling him which town I liked best a rattled of a few bars to go to. He was on his way out the door for lunch so that was that. Later in the day, on his way out of the office for the night he asked "So when do you like to go out, Saturdays?" I again thought he was soliciting information from me, so I said Friday's were a better day. He then suggested "Well we should pick a Friday and head out to those bars you told me about." I politely told him I rarely go out anymore and he walked out the door.
Thinking about the events, it was fairly smooth... but was I supposed to blurt out "I can't I have a boy friend." At this point I figure if and when he approaches me again with a specific day in mind, I will tell him that I am busy because it's movie night with my man. Problem solved right?
This was completely new for me. I am in my mid 20's been in two year plus relationship, but was single throughout most of college and have been in a relationship for the last year. My boyfriend and I met through craigslist so there was no passive asking out, very direct and easy.
It wasn't until he was gone for the day I even realized I had essentially just been asked out on a date. My suspicions were confirmed well I told my man what happened and he said "That's it, I'm going to work with you from now on" On top of that, he came in today having returned from a break, coffee in hand, and announces "there she is! I was looking for you, I wanted to get you coffee." Again I politely replied that I had my tea and I was fine, thank you.

I guess these are the problems thin people run into... 55lbs lost and the middle of my weight range and bmi for the first time since highschool.

What is the protocol here? Everyone I work with knows I am in a wonderful happy and serious relationship; this guy has clearly not done his homework. I don't want to be rude. So wat do I do? Stick with my plan and be passive unless or until he asks me out and then break the news?


Fri. Jun 6, 12:49pm

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