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Am I overreacting?

I am upset because my boyfriend is close to a female friend of his, who I don't personally know but who he spends a lot of time with, including living in the same shared house and working with her.

He has cut me off a few times when I have phoned and she has been in the vicinity, and I haven't understood why and feel quite insecure that he spends a lot of time with her. I am worried he is attracted to her. I live in a different town and he hasn't invited me over there since he moved into a shared house with her and 3 others, just after Christmas. He says her boyfriend is one of the other people who share the house.

I feel quite upset and angry as I was speaking to him on the phone last night and he commented that he had told her I was messy and that she cleans the house a lot better than me. She is not a mutual friend (I don't even know her and have only seen her once very fleetingly), but I feel betrayed that he is telling her personal stuff about me and criticsing me. It's like they are laughing at me behind my back. I admit I am a bit messy (he is compulsively tidy by the way), but I don't like him saying these things to someone I don't know and am wary of anyway.

What do others think? Would you be angry too in this situation?


Thu. Feb 11, 12:32pm

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